First, I must say that I am the ultimate TLC fan. I have been one since their first CD. Needless to say, I was sitting in front of the T.V. patiently waiting for Chilli's new show. I ABSOLUTELY LOVED HER SHOW!!!! Now the person finding her a man, is lacking etiquette, but other than that I totally loved the show. Chilli has this long list of standards that her potential man has to meet, now some of those standards are realistic, but the others she could do away with. She probably just needs to build a man with the standards that she has. Some of the standards include: must be a Christian, have nice abs, can't drink or smoke, no more than 4 kids, no more than 2 baby mamas, must have a "large package", and some other criteria. Now with the criteria that I just mentioned, I think it is possible; however, it may be hard to find a professional man who does not drink along with everything else.
As a very intelligent Black woman entering the legal profession, sometimes I find myself checking my list, and checking it twice when it comes to dating. But hey it is very hard to date someone who does not carry themselves in such a manner, when you have worked so hard to make yourself a better person. Whats wrong with wanting a man who is successfully working on turning his dreams into reality, or dating a successful business owner or professional. I say go for the gold, and do not put your standards to the side, unless they are just outrageous. The hint is that if many people keep telling you that some of your standards are outrageous then they probably are outrageous. Chilli is a very beautiful woman, who has alot to protect. Many of us are wondering why she is still single. I don't believe that she had all of these expectations before she encountered previous relationships with men. I believe that she probably made this list along the path of her life.
My opinion is that she should continue to build a strong friendship with Mr. Floyd Mayweather, and eventually make him her man. Chiilllld that man is handsome, and that smile is a killer. Chilli better get on it before some random groupie snatches him up!!!! I really enjoyed the show, however I really wonder if she finds love by the end of the season.
I think that the show is a desperate attempt to obtain a paycheck on her part. Why would you be on national TV announcing that penis size is important???? And, you have a child that is old enough to watch TV. It is ridiculous!!! I am so tired of desperate women trying to find a man reality shows (Love of Ray J, Flavor of Love, Let's talk about Pep, etc.). Her REAL PROBLEM is that she thinks that she is all of that. Don't get me wrong. You should think highly of yourself, but you shouldn't think that you are better than anyone else, and that lists shows that she thinks she is too good. She needs to get over herself, she is 39 and single.
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